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6 месяцев4 Jan 2026 в 14:44
RU
Original language: Русский
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It would be good to spice up the feed with something. But besides movies, I seem unable to talk about anything else)...
What to talk about?
About fears. How to distinguish the fear that protects from the one that hinders? What you shouldn't be afraid of and how to stop disappearing for a long time? That is, keeping a rhythm apparently in life is the hardest thing, there are things you don't control, no matter how much you want to, and if you try, you become some kind of soulless observer, not involved in the process, when the psyche demands it.
In general, what have you ever been afraid of, and how did it help or hinder you?
While you think or write, here's a series for you, quite good
"Savage River" ("Savage River")
Jocelyn Moorhouse (Jocelyn Moorhouse)
2022
#psychology
#movies
#series
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6 месяцев4 Jan 2026 в 14:56
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Aiya
How to distinguish the fear that protects from the one that hinders?
Protective fear differs from the hindering one by understanding what the second type protects against.
Fear, as long as it hasn't turned into a phobia, is an excellent protective mechanism that prevents failures where reason would cause them.
And phobias also have their own sphere of application.
Aiya
What shouldn't be feared and how to stop disappearing for a long time?
A very specific question.
If time for oneself unexpectedly turned out to be more valuable than time for others, it's not a matter of fear.
Aiya
Overall, what have you ever feared, and how did it help or hinder you?
I haven't yet adapted the cat-related psychosis to anything useful.
Fear of heights, after I made peace with it, gives me an almost zero chance of injury due to neglecting safety procedures.
Especially if it involves having to do something at a height above my own.
It no longer creates inconveniences. At least for me (it's not customary in our culture to follow safety regulations, yes).
If there's a need to smoke on an open Soviet-style balcony, run across a bridge, or go through yet another designer... um... terribly poorly planned passage with low railings in some shopping gallery – well, I'll do it quickly. Though I'll have to catch my breath afterwards.
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Aiya
6 месяцев4 Jan 2026 в 15:07
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Protective fear differs from the hindering one by understanding what the second type protects...
It was great, you have a good style) or a decent day)

What not to be afraid of and how to stop disappearing for a long time?
These are two separate questions) not related)

After reading, you realize that you have more or less laid out on shelves.

But fear, or rather phobia, greatly interferes with life, as it is a highly energy-consuming process)
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6 месяцев4 Jan 2026 в 15:28
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Aiya
It was great, you have a good style) or a decent day)

These are two separate questions) not...
I had too much time to think about all this.
The phrasing, though... When I think about such broad questions, I somehow automatically switch to the "Golem" style from Lem's eponymous work.
Aiya
After reading, you realize that you have it more or less spread out on the shelves.
I wish I were confident about that.
Aiya
These are two separate questions) not related)
That's good!
However, that doesn't change the answer :)
If something becomes a burden too often, there's nothing wrong with taking a break from it.
And if that something is not valuable enough to rest from, there's nothing to fear.
The world is full of things that, properly speaking, are worth fearing.
But we can allow ourselves to take a break from these things... for now.
(and if there's nowhere to escape from this something - is there any point in fearing it, if you can try to change it—or yourself? Inaction is a road to nowhere)
Aiya
But fear, or rather phobia, seriously hinders life, as it's a highly energy-consuming process)
Exactly.
Moreover, you, I think, have precisely captured the meaning that I would have put into these same words.
But this effect has, first of all, quite specific reasons, and secondly, there will surely be a couple of useful properties that would be good to learn to use.
This can be worked on to increase the efficiency coefficient of this phenomenon... So far, no one has died from burning a few extra calories due to a significantly accelerated metabolism (provided the rest of the body's parameters are in order).

What can truly be harmful in the case of a phobia is the fact that (if it's not cheap posing but a real phobia) under its influence a person's "social mask" completely falls off.
Which then you still have to live with the consequences, if in a state of affect the person has done something.
At first I panicked about this. Until I realized that such incidents are an opportunity to consider what my subconscious wants and how to reconcile its goals with the conscious mind's goals.
The subconscious, in general, is a rather reticent interlocutor.
And each such case is an excellent reason to listen to it...
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6 месяцев4 Jan 2026 в 16:01
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I had too much time to think about all this.
The phrasing, though... When I think about such broad...
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I wish I were confident about this.
definitely nein I suppose) although sometimes it happens, cool sensations)

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under its influence, a person's "social mask" completely falls off.
cool, I hadn't thought about that
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